The V days is coming

3 more days. Thats the worst or almost-choke-dead word that every female species on the earth are associated with. It is the day when the roses boom, the chocolates are sold in tonnes, the flowers are hiked up in prices, the day where you simply walked into any restaurants without reservations and find yourself no seats and the day you felt so frustrated with the amount of $ you will spend for each and another, for the sake of the feeling and a global celebration that is overly-hyped!

Yes! St Valentines Day. The day that every newly-togethered-couple with hold their hands, with the sweat at their palms, like a lovely couple. The day when old couples at the age of 60 still holding their hands sitting at their home's balcony embracing each others arms, smiling at each others wrinkles and laugh at their silly little things they have done during their last 40 years of marriage.

For some, it is a cherished day. For some, it is a dreaded day. OMG! Money to be spend again buying some same old stuff to be given away for their partner in a day where millions of couples globally will be buying the same things to be given to each other. Roses, flowers, chocolates, sweets, dinners, movies, and sex after. God! A resemblence of me. Hahaha. Such a boring old me.

C'mon! For man's perspective point of view, generally speaking, ahem! How is it that there are so many celebrations and dates to be associated with, in 365 days a year to celebrate the thing you called "love"? Ain't it simpler and much more loving to love each other everyday and show your care and share through out every weekend cuddling each other on the soft warm sofa in front of TV. Feeding each other with ice-cream, chocolate and a glass of Merlot.

No. It is not enough, as according to some females. Love are meant to be celebrated! Yeah. Its true. There is 2 birthdays in a year, 1 wedding date, 1 dating date, 1 Chinese valentines day, 1 Xmas day, 1 Valentine's day, 1 New year day and other days that you can associated with in 365 days a year for the Love Celebration Day. Thats 8 days ++ If you are to logical divide it with 12 months, you will be celebrating Love once every 1 month. Almost.


But, for a woman's point of view, of course, the more the better, ain't it?

But no, i believe the woman and female generations of our new era have a different point of view. Slightly different on the outside. They are more empowered and more intelletual, so to speak, compared to 30 years ago. They appreciate the relationship more in a different way. Perhaps it is due to the changes in settings, circumstances in life and the way a woman lives her life in this era of cosmopolitan and city life.

They read more, they have more opinions and ideas, they fight for their rights and they are growing stronger and demands more for their birth right. I totally agree with this. We are homosapiens and born with instincts in us. Yes. Each one of us! Thus, the breed of a new generation of woman who is better and smarter.

Of course, i do not deny it that deep down within a woman's heart that every one longs for their prince charming, who will gallop in their suits and armors. If we are to convert this image into modern day, would it be a handsome man with a Ferrari? Not sure about this though. But, generally speaking, i believe a majority of women still believes in love and marriage.

Good for us, mankind! The need to improve as a MAN and determination of the size of your EGO lies up in your head above, not by the length and size of your cock. The need to improve mentally and to grow wiser up in the head with the brain. Meet the new breed of men, wiser men, i believe.

For couples, women and men, yes! celebrate more and cherish the moment more with each other during this special coming V day. Embrace and enjoy the feeling more than ever. The intense and the sizzling at the arm of each another. The heartbeat, the memories and the adrenaline rush that everyone is looking for. For you may hope that the love does not change and the world remains at standstill. For that piece of happy memory when you look back behind 30 years later. That you have done the right thing. For being happy on the Valentines day in 2009.

For those lonely women, single women and other mens, out there living in the city of metropolitan, fear not. Woman are best of buddies and accompanied with each other laughing and smiling after the days work. Be of no afraid. You are truly better and deserved a better accompanion of friends who are lonely as well. Why be UNHAPPY when you can have the best of friends who shares and cares for each one and another during the special day of St Valentines Day. Cherish the moments of happiness in V day in 2009, as well!

Last but not least, i personally believes that life are meant to be happy. In whatever you do, wherever you live and whenever you are.


I wish you a VERY HAPPY and Delighted HAPPY VALENTINES DAY!